I second, third, whatever, Tirned, Mark 12_30 and Bethberry. I know more than a few men like that. Remember, Strider didn't look too good in Bree. Take heart, Lush, and cultivate your peripheral vision. Truly good men show it when you're not looking their way: it's how they treat the ones they're NOT trying to get into bed and DON'T need or want anything from that separates the men of worth from the others. And no, you don't have to compromise on attraction. Graduate level lust, as opposed to kiddie lust, goes this way: 'whatever you are, that's what I want.' The particulars of this man, THIS MAN RIGHT HERE are what melt your brain down-- it's an attraction that goes WAY beyond good cheekbones and melty eyes, though they don't hurt. There's your scenic man and then there's your soul-melting man-- finding one is all a matter of time, patience and excellent peripheral vision.
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