LOL - Sweetie I am all woman 

  but at the moment I am RPG-ing 3 male chars so maybe that is showing through 

 .... Actually the wen in my name is not meant to indicate my gender but is  meant to be  Mith + alwen which according to the translator I used a litererary or archaic sindarin word for tree..... so Mithalwen  was intended to mean Grey-tree - which could be unisex not grey-"something" -maiden....which couldn't