I am sneaking in with a very quick comment about Eowyn.
Tar-ancalime, you suggest that what Eowyn wants is choice and that back in Rohan she would not have choice. That is quite right. There were no other royal or noble families in Rohan from which she could have picked a husband. She had to look elsewhere. And her choice was invariably wound up with nobility, a Prince of Ithilien. And I would agree with
Mr. Underhill that married life does not automatically exclude female empowerment. However, the context of Eowyn's marriage is clearly to suggest that she will return to a domestic sphere. It strikes me that Mr. Underhill is clearly engaging in imaginative extrapolation of the text when he envisages a feisty wife for Faramir. I don't sense any Lion in Winter suggestions here. (drat the book is not at hand to provide authoriative backing for my strongly stated position.)
I believe Eowyn is the only female character who is shown to be confused. She is conflicted about the men she is attracted to. And she is the only female character who is shown to be conflicted about the opportunity available to her. Does any other female character in LotR makes mistakes? (Yes, yes, we all know about how Galadriel is redeemed, but that miraculous reinvention takes place outside the trilogy.)
We are shown Goldberry happily ensconced in marriage with Tom. Arwen patiently waiting for Aragorn (her desperation and woe do come, but in the Appendices, to forestall any of you who wish to correct my point above (
) and even then she is not shown to be in err but to wish to forestall the inevitable.) There is never any question (in my mind at least) that Galadriel will fail the test. Sweet Rosie happily becomes a baby machine. (Why doesn't Eowyn have a baker's dozen? Are things different for the rich and wealthy?)
In short, in my snappy mood right now, I would concur with
Master Hedgethistle that Eowyn is more a sympathetic depiction of a woman who is unhappy with women's lot--and made sympathetic because she renounces her ways--than any sort of suffragette. Feminist manqué.
I would quote from Tolkien's Letter to his son Michael where he offers a father's sage opinion about the other sex, wherein Tolkien states that women lack the capacity for original thought, but that wouldn't be fair now, would it, seeing as I don't think the letters are
necessarily canonically authoritative.
My, I didn't think I had any lemon with my tea this afternoon.