I've post again and once more Athwen has addressed Dorran, but this time with a completely different question. If it's not a good idea to do as she asks, then I'm afraid it's going to have to be your characer that is responsible and says no.

Have fun with it.
And I know I didn't have Athwen think about what he said concerning Andwulf. Her mind ran on different tracks for now. She might be purposefully avoiding thinking about her future right now. . .I'm not quite sure. I'm sure she'll think about it later.
-- Folwren