From what I know it was she that started it. When Tom was beside they Withywindle one day he dangled his beard in the water and she caught and pulled him into the water.
It was only later that he returned and married her.
Besides, I doubt that such things are possible between spirits like Tom and Goldberry...
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“The invisible and the non-existent look very much alike.”
Delos B. McKown
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