reply to
Faramir:
Must agree most of Exilians were unwise. Probably all the wise stayed in Aman ;O)
Mention that was their fate since they let Valinor.
As Faramir said, by Feanaro acts and decisions. The had a chance to change their fate until Herold said to him what happend to those who will go. War, death and no mention the beauty and good thing they will do, they will turn into shadows and big saddness will find their kind...
Ofcourse for example Fingolfin feeled he had to go, because he unfortunatelly swear his loyalty to Feanor not a long time before.
Nods, Galadriel was very wise. It is said that 'cause she had a blood of all three kinds of Eldar (Vanya by her grandmother Indis, Teleri by her mother Eärwen, rest Noldor) she was especially noble and royal. Also, she was able to enter Doriath and teached by Maia Melian a lot (with touch of guiltines because of Killing in Alqualonde). Compaired to, Ared spended most or her time with selfis flaming Feanorians she had similar temper to
I think, yes, she was selfish and unwise, dont think she was bad or immoral.