the third book

[Merri]

no its soo stupid, i just cant believe tat he leaves

Well, in my opinion, it's not stupid at all, but I suppose it is stupid, if you don't want to think about anything.

I'm just echoing what other people have said in saying that I believe the Gray Havens was a metaphor for dying, and the Heaven we know now. I think it's a great way to end the story- it's the kind of ending that makes you go Wow, that was a good story, sit back in your chair, and smile.