Elven children - The Barrow-Downs Discussion Forum

twinkle · 02-24-2002, 10:04 PM

hi all....
since i am also a newbie to this site i'm not particularly sure wether this subject goes here or is even a subject per se....
this just interests me and i was wondering if some of you could fill me in.....
i only read the hobbit and lotr and just listening to deeper discussions(when they occur)in chat, more and more questions pop into my head......one of them is this:
elven children....seeing as though elves are immortal, how is the timeline for their physical maturity......are elven "toddlers" ever mentioned in any of tolkiens books?
would really like to know how they run through the stages from infancy to adulthood.....
who rears the children? would their childhoods and their care have been similar to our middle ages? male children fostered and such?
maybe not a "deep" discussion, but i hope a worthwhile one?

Raefindel · 02-24-2002, 10:29 PM

I have not read the Silmarilian either so maybe I'm not all that qualified to answer your question, but hey, I got here first! Ha ha ha. The Elves,with few exceptions, by the time of Lotr books, don't have children because they are the elder race and leaving Middle Earth. In the earlier ages, they did have children and rear them much as we do.

Raefindel · 02-24-2002, 10:32 PM

Oh, and Welcome to the Barrow-Downs, Twinkle. Named after your favorite star? Enjoy your time here. Everyone is very friendly.

Orald · 02-25-2002, 02:06 PM

IIRC Elves mature around the age of 50, and do not age much after that. Although some, like Cirdan, who are very old, and remained in ME so long, start to weary of the world and age, growing a beard and such.

Kuruharan · 02-25-2002, 08:07 PM

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Wisdom is the reward you get for a lifetime of listening when you’d have preferred to talk

Nice sig Durelen.

You wouldn't happen to remember where it says 50 years would you? I thought that it was about 50 years but I could not remember where I saw it.

Orald · 02-26-2002, 02:58 AM

I don't have any of my books with me right now to say for sure, but I would have to say Quendi and Eldar. I will check on it for you though.

Nufaciel · 02-26-2002, 02:54 PM

Hi! I'm a newbie to this site, but I do have the answer to where you can find the info you're looking for. It's in Morgoth's Ring, starting on page 209.

firncristwen · 02-26-2002, 03:53 PM

Aww! I keep picturing little Legolas and Haldir :-)

Birdland · 02-26-2002, 11:32 PM

I wonder how baby elves would act? Would they drool and need their elven nappies changed? Would they go through the Terrible Twos? (or Twenties?)

Or maybe they come straight out of the womb all wise and other-worldly, like that kid in "Dune" did.

Hard to image what a baby elf would be like, but I bet they're a handful. Otherwise, why would you live for 6000 years, and only have one or two kids?

Raefindel · 02-26-2002, 11:55 PM

LOL! [img]smilies/smile.gif[/img] I'll bet they WERE a handful! I can imagine Elladan and Elrohir coming home with their little bows in hand... "YOU tell him", "NO, YOU tell him" "Tell me what?" Father Elrond says. "Elrohir shot down another eagle!" "Well YOU told me to!!" [img]smilies/biggrin.gif[/img]

twinkle · 02-27-2002, 01:08 PM

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Originally posted by Raefindel:
<STRONG>Oh, and Welcome to the Barrow-Downs, Twinkle. Named after your favorite star? Enjoy your time here. Everyone is very friendly.</STRONG>

thank you raefindel for your welcome and your response...
not named after my favorite star i'm afraid, yet after the everpresent twinkle in my eye....i have a mischievous streak a mile long [img]smilies/wink.gif[/img]

it sounds to me after the posts i have read so far that there is not much written on the subject of my original message....
at least i know now that physical maturity comes around 50 yrs of age, but i also wonder if elven children were otherworldly from birth as birdland does.....
alas i will have to cling to my imagination a bit further....but that is also a nice place to be.....

-twinkle

Kuruharan · 02-27-2002, 03:05 PM

Durelen, and Nufaciel
Thank you, I knew it was around somewhere. [img]smilies/smile.gif[/img]

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it sounds to me after the posts i have read so far that there is not much written on the subject of my original message....

After a while it gets to be like second nature. [img]smilies/wink.gif[/img]

Gayahithwen · 02-28-2002, 10:34 AM

Elven children.. yeah, the thought is now in my mind.. arrrrggghhh.. but just one idea:
Galadriel had four brothers.. and if I'm not toally wrong, there are more bigsized families.. so it can't be that bad.. maybe they are just trying not to be part of the population growth to much? Family planning?

Besides, can you imagine a pregnant elf? I know, the idea is frustration once it gets into your mind, but think about it...

Raefindel · 02-28-2002, 10:33 PM

Elves lived such long lives, Well They are immortal, that if they had children throughout their "childbearing years" like we do they would likely have scores of children and the world would be dominated by Elves.

Gayahithwen · 03-02-2002, 10:08 AM

I just think I came up with the final solution why elves doesn't have that many children.. Since elves doesn't sleep, they can't have beds, can they?? So it would only be on somehow rare occasions there was a possibility for them to.. well, you know.. ^_^ if you don't sleep, just wander around in the woods, looking at beautiful things, then I don't think it would be so many times alone with the one you love, will they??

Oh, now I'm just becoming silly because I'm suffering from a big lack of sleep, so please don't care about me.. if it wasn't for the fact that I had allready written so much I would just delete this, but now I am tired anyway.. Please don't kill me if you don't like my idea.. ^_^

Aralaithiel · 03-02-2002, 01:57 PM

Thanks for that image of Elladan & Elrohir, Raefindel! I can just picture the look on Elrond's face!! LOL! [img]smilies/biggrin.gif[/img]
Oh, and what's wrong with being dominated by Elves?!?!?! [img]smilies/biggrin.gif[/img] [img]smilies/tongue.gif[/img] I am the High Queen of the Eldar, you know!!

Raefindel · 03-05-2002, 08:07 PM

Can't really take the credit, Birdland inspired me! [img]smilies/smile.gif[/img]

Amanaduial the archer · 07-06-2005, 06:12 AM

Bringing up this topic again rather than make a new one (ah, see my halo shine...) although it would probably fit better in Novices and Newcomers...

Just wanting to clarify a few things for the purposes of an RPG character:

When you say elves 'mature' at 50 years, would you mean in the same way that humans mature at about 18 years old (in theory)? Would this be when they were fully grown, or would it before then? If so, at what sort of pace would childhood go - would it just be like a human childhood but slowed down to less than half the speed?

Any answers would be most helpful...

Estelyn Telcontar · 07-06-2005, 08:33 AM

davem just recently quoted the relevant answer to this question on The Aging of Elves, post #10. Hope that helps!

VanimaEdhel · 07-09-2005, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Raefindel

Elves lived such long lives, Well They are immortal, that if they had children throughout their "childbearing years" like we do they would likely have scores of children and the world would be dominated by Elves.

That is a curious question - obviously by the Third Age, the Elves began to leave off having children, but you would have thought that, even given that Elves only had a few children each, it would have gotten more crowded than it did. The average Elf seemed to have two or three children. Since most parents did not die, that leaves the children and the adults. After just a few generations - even giving, say, a few hundred years of a gap between birth and eventual procreation of the children themselves - it starts to get a bit crowded.

Formendacil · 07-09-2005, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by VanimaEdhel

That is a curious question - obviously by the Third Age, the Elves began to leave off having children, but you would have thought that, even given that Elves only had a few children each, it would have gotten more crowded than it did. The average Elf seemed to have two or three children. Since most parents did not die, that leaves the children and the adults. After just a few generations - even giving, say, a few hundred years of a gap between birth and eventual procreation of the children themselves - it starts to get a bit crowded.

Who knows what it was like in Valinor or Eressea (but they had plenty of room there, I wager), but in Middle-earth there was no net growth, I think, only net loss.

The number of Elves being born was probably only slightly ahead of or equal to the number of Elves dying. After all, the Elves of Lindon and Rivendell kept getting embroiled in the Angmar/Arnor wars- even the Lorien folk joined in a couple times. The Elves of Lorien and Mirkwood, especially the Mirkwood ones, were constantly quarrelling with Dul Guldor. Lothlorien was severely endangered at the time of the Balrog's awakening, and the time of the Dwarves fleeing from Moria.

That's just deaths. On top of that one has to remember the steady, constant trickle of Elves to the West.

I have no idea what the situation was like there, but in Middle-earth it was not one of an Elvish population boom.

narfforc · 07-10-2005, 04:10 AM

Elured and Elurin are called the young sons of Dior. Elurin means, In Remembrance of Elu (Thingol). Dior leaves Lanthir Lamath for Menegroth with his family, upon hearing of the death of Thingol. I do not know the time difference between these two events, but if Diors younger son is named in remembrance of King Thingol, then he must have been very young indeed. I also think that when the servents of Celegorm left the sons to starve in the forest, these children are incabable of looking after themselves, an older elven prince would have felt at home in any wood/forest

02-24-2002, 10:29 PM	#2
Raefindel Sword of the Spirit Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Washington State Posts: 1,323	I have not read the Silmarilian either so maybe I'm not all that qualified to answer your question, but hey, I got here first! Ha ha ha. The Elves,with few exceptions, by the time of Lotr books, don't have children because they are the elder race and leaving Middle Earth. In the earlier ages, they did have children and rear them much as we do. __________________ Blessed be the Lord my Strength, Who trained my hands for war and my fingers to fight. Psallm 144:1

02-24-2002, 10:32 PM	#3
Raefindel Sword of the Spirit Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Washington State Posts: 1,323	Oh, and Welcome to the Barrow-Downs, Twinkle. Named after your favorite star? Enjoy your time here. Everyone is very friendly. __________________ Blessed be the Lord my Strength, Who trained my hands for war and my fingers to fight. Psallm 144:1

02-26-2002, 02:54 PM	#7
Nufaciel Wight Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 133	Hi! I'm a newbie to this site, but I do have the answer to where you can find the info you're looking for. It's in Morgoth's Ring, starting on page 209. __________________ Member of Pervy Elf Fanciers Anonymous...I need professional help.

02-26-2002, 03:53 PM	#8
firncristwen Pile O'Bones Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: The light-swept paths of imagination Posts: 15	Aww! I keep picturing little Legolas and Haldir :-) __________________ 'For many life is only the border of a terrible dream; shall we pass, I wonder?' ...from "Quest in the Blue"

02-28-2002, 10:34 AM	#13
Gayahithwen Wight Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: The chat-room. Posts: 241	Elven children.. yeah, the thought is now in my mind.. arrrrggghhh.. but just one idea: Galadriel had four brothers.. and if I'm not toally wrong, there are more bigsized families.. so it can't be that bad.. maybe they are just trying not to be part of the population growth to much? Family planning? Besides, can you imagine a pregnant elf? I know, the idea is frustration once it gets into your mind, but think about it... __________________ Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he'll be a mile away - and barefoot.

02-24-2002, 10:04 PM	#1
twinkle Animated Skeleton Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: my little blooming garden Posts: 45	Elven children hi all.... since i am also a newbie to this site i'm not particularly sure wether this subject goes here or is even a subject per se.... this just interests me and i was wondering if some of you could fill me in..... i only read the hobbit and lotr and just listening to deeper discussions(when they occur)in chat, more and more questions pop into my head......one of them is this: elven children....seeing as though elves are immortal, how is the timeline for their physical maturity......are elven "toddlers" ever mentioned in any of tolkiens books? would really like to know how they run through the stages from infancy to adulthood..... who rears the children? would their childhoods and their care have been similar to our middle ages? male children fostered and such? maybe not a "deep" discussion, but i hope a worthwhile one? __________________ “For if joyful is the fountain that rises in the sun, its springs are in the wells of sorrow unfathomable at the foundations of the Earth.” ― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Silmarillion

02-25-2002, 02:06 PM	#4
Orald Shadow of Malice Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: right behind you Posts: 843	IIRC Elves mature around the age of 50, and do not age much after that. Although some, like Cirdan, who are very old, and remained in ME so long, start to weary of the world and age, growing a beard and such.

02-26-2002, 02:58 AM	#6
Orald Shadow of Malice Join Date: Nov 2000 Location: right behind you Posts: 843	I don't have any of my books with me right now to say for sure, but I would have to say Quendi and Eldar. I will check on it for you though.

02-26-2002, 11:32 PM	#9
Birdland Ghastly Neekerbreeker Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: the banks of the mighty Scioto Posts: 1,757	I wonder how baby elves would act? Would they drool and need their elven nappies changed? Would they go through the Terrible Twos? (or Twenties?) Or maybe they come straight out of the womb all wise and other-worldly, like that kid in "Dune" did. Hard to image what a baby elf would be like, but I bet they're a handful. Otherwise, why would you live for 6000 years, and only have one or two kids?

02-26-2002, 11:55 PM	#10
Raefindel Sword of the Spirit Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Washington State Posts: 1,323	LOL! [img]smilies/smile.gif[/img] I'll bet they WERE a handful! I can imagine Elladan and Elrohir coming home with their little bows in hand... "YOU tell him", "NO, YOU tell him" "Tell me what?" Father Elrond says. "Elrohir shot down another eagle!" "Well YOU told me to!!" [img]smilies/biggrin.gif[/img] __________________ Blessed be the Lord my Strength, Who trained my hands for war and my fingers to fight. Psallm 144:1

02-28-2002, 10:33 PM	#14
Raefindel Sword of the Spirit Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Washington State Posts: 1,323	Elves lived such long lives, Well They are immortal, that if they had children throughout their "childbearing years" like we do they would likely have scores of children and the world would be dominated by Elves. __________________ Blessed be the Lord my Strength, Who trained my hands for war and my fingers to fight. Psallm 144:1

03-02-2002, 10:08 AM	#15
Gayahithwen Wight Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: The chat-room. Posts: 241	I just think I came up with the final solution why elves doesn't have that many children.. Since elves doesn't sleep, they can't have beds, can they?? So it would only be on somehow rare occasions there was a possibility for them to.. well, you know.. ^_^ if you don't sleep, just wander around in the woods, looking at beautiful things, then I don't think it would be so many times alone with the one you love, will they?? Oh, now I'm just becoming silly because I'm suffering from a big lack of sleep, so please don't care about me.. if it wasn't for the fact that I had allready written so much I would just delete this, but now I am tired anyway.. Please don't kill me if you don't like my idea.. ^_^ __________________ Before you criticize someone, walk a mile in his shoes. That way, if he gets angry, he'll be a mile away - and barefoot.

03-02-2002, 01:57 PM	#16
Aralaithiel Ghost Eldaran Queen Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: A remote mountain in Valinor Posts: 353	Thanks for that image of Elladan & Elrohir, Raefindel! I can just picture the look on Elrond's face!! LOL! [img]smilies/biggrin.gif[/img] Oh, and what's wrong with being dominated by Elves?!?!?! [img]smilies/biggrin.gif[/img] [img]smilies/tongue.gif[/img] I am the High Queen of the Eldar, you know!! __________________ A lelyat, wen! (Quenya Elvish for "You go, girl!"

03-05-2002, 08:07 PM	#17
Raefindel Sword of the Spirit Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Washington State Posts: 1,323	Can't really take the credit, Birdland inspired me! [img]smilies/smile.gif[/img] __________________ Blessed be the Lord my Strength, Who trained my hands for war and my fingers to fight. Psallm 144:1

07-06-2005, 06:12 AM	#18
Amanaduial the archer Shadow of Starlight Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: dancing among the ledgerlines... Posts: 2,365	Bringing up this topic again rather than make a new one (ah, see my halo shine...) although it would probably fit better in Novices and Newcomers... Just wanting to clarify a few things for the purposes of an RPG character: When you say elves 'mature' at 50 years, would you mean in the same way that humans mature at about 18 years old (in theory)? Would this be when they were fully grown, or would it before then? If so, at what sort of pace would childhood go - would it just be like a human childhood but slowed down to less than half the speed? Any answers would be most helpful... __________________ I am what I was, a harmless little devil

07-06-2005, 08:33 AM	#19
Estelyn Telcontar Princess of Skwerlz Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: where the Sea is eastwards (WtR: 6060 miles) Posts: 7,535	davem just recently quoted the relevant answer to this question on The Aging of Elves, post #10. Hope that helps! __________________ 'Mercy!' cried Gandalf. 'If the giving of information is to be the cure of your inquisitiveness, I shall spend all the rest of my days in answering you. What more do you want to know?' 'The whole history of Middle-earth...'

07-10-2005, 04:10 AM	#22
narfforc Ghost Prince of Cardolan Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Muddy-earth Posts: 1,297	Elured and Elurin are called the young sons of Dior. Elurin means, In Remembrance of Elu (Thingol). Dior leaves Lanthir Lamath for Menegroth with his family, upon hearing of the death of Thingol. I do not know the time difference between these two events, but if Diors younger son is named in remembrance of King Thingol, then he must have been very young indeed. I also think that when the servents of Celegorm left the sons to starve in the forest, these children are incabable of looking after themselves, an older elven prince would have felt at home in any wood/forest