For a drearier, scarier, better ‘downs.

[Boromir88]

I, for one, hate sitting at the kid's table. Even when I was a kid. I would hate to make it seem like we were asking peopel to do that now.~Fordim

And it would further widen the rift that has seemingly popped up.

Jenny, I can see where the feeling of 'casting aside' comes if you are directed to another thread. Sort of like, 'Here, that's the discussion go there if you want.' In the past this might be something that happened, but there wouldn't be any harm if we start doing things differently now.