if you could be either Eowyn or Arwen which would you be?

Arwen, without a doubt.
While Eowyn remains high in my esteem, and I think that she is a remarkable, courageous character, I cannot but choose Arwen. My reason, quite simply, is the love factor. She gives up everything (and this includes all the garden-strolling and laments and songs and other sundry Elvish pursuits) that she has known in order to stay with Aragorn. I admire this absolute love, and I can only think it would be an amazing love to experience.

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That and I *really* want pointy ears.
Oh. And Aragorn's pretty...well... yeah. [img]smilies/wink.gif[/img]